Hey guys! So today I thought we could do an exercise!
Stop crying. No, not like crunches
or jumping jacks or any of that hard stuff; I’m way too lazy for that kind of exercise today. Well pretty
much always, actually, but that’s beside the point.
Go get a piece of paper and something to write with. I was
going to say a pen, but if your house is anything like mine you will not
be able to find a single working pen. Most likely the only writing implement
you will find is the flat end of a yellow crayon or a pencil with no point and
no eraser.
That is almost true...
Got them? Really? I kind of don’t think you actually did. If you didn’t then GO! If you did, good for you and keep reading!
Okay number your paper one through five. On the back of
your paper number it 1-5 again. On the first list write five character traits
that you want to see in your future spouse. NOT genetic traits like blonde hair and green eyes, but
non-negotiable character traits like humility, generosity or having a good work
ethic.
Done that? Hopefully it was easy to come up with five. Okay
now on your other list, again write those character traits BUT ONLY if you possess
the traits yourself. Done? Look at it. Did you have to leave some blank? Maybe you
aren’t really humble X Maybe
you struggle with generosity X
Does that make you think at all?
I seriously hope it does.
Basically, this is my point:
We all have things that we look for in a husband (or wife)
but we, or at least I, tend to forget that they have things that they’re
looking for in a wife! (Or husband) If
you left any blanks on your list make it your mission this week to work super
hard on at least one of them. You could
be the best wife (or husband) ever!
XO Charlotte
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