Dating and Courting. I literally couldn't tell you the difference between the two if I tried, but nevertheless it's something i've given a lot of thought to. People get so hung up on this it's crazy! They put so much emphasis on the names (Dating and Courting) and God forbid if someone dates, or heaven help those uber-conservative courters. Really people? I'll tell you what I think.
I use the word date. Please don't condemn my poor worldly soul...I will explain! I say date because I don't know what courting is exactly. In my rambling way i'm going to attempt to put together my view so you can understand what i'm trying to say.
I don't agree with the idea of the BF and GF having to visit at each other's houses only, under strict supervision. I have heard things like that about courting (mostly from movies like Pride and Prejudice and things haha) I also don't think they should have to be in a group setting at all times either. How can they really spend one-on-one time getting to know each other? I think a happy medium between group dates and *gasp* "real dates" is okay.
I totally get it if the couple is like 15 or 16 and they can't go on dates alone. DUH. But if they're responsible and over 17 (In my opinion) I think it's okay to maybe go to dinner or something. Granted temptations to "do things" are far higher in that situation than with a chaperone...but let me repeat the part about being responsible. Biggie there guys. If the two people can be trusted to do only what would please God then I think they should be trusted enough to spend a little time without five other people sitting in between them. I also like the "6 inches" rule :) Ehhh that's all I have for now...hopefully that gave you a little idea about ...my idea. XO Charlotte
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